OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I cut my mother off financially and made a petty remark as to what she should do instead. 2. This might make me an asshole because im saying exactly what was told to me as a kid, in response to something i wanted. Some might say i need to leave the past in ...I wanted her to agree to ground our daughter from social media and make her get a job to pay for the damage. We argued for hours until she said I don't get a say in any punishment because I'm not her father. That ended the argument and I walked off. Since then I've checked out of any parental duties.Real talk. Your dad is an AH. BUT he’s paying for 1/2 your college. I’m not saying forgive him. I’m just saying bide your time. Ride that gravy train to low or no college debt; maybe even see if you can get some grad school funds before SB graduates and they need to direct money to his schooling.When her brother needed help, it's I who gave him money. Why? Because they are MY in-laws, and he's MY brother-in-law. I think it's my responsibility to look after their parents. She thinks it's her responsibility to look after mine in another way. It's absolutely NOT one-sided on my part. My wife Lisa and I have been together for a while.ADMIN MOD. AITA for "kidnapping" my baby, causing my husband to have a panic attack. Not the A-hole. I 29 f recently started working again after having my daughter (4m). Daycare is too expensive so my husband 35m reluctantly agreed to stay home. It's important to know that he's been unemployed since 2021. He receives benefits.I've been married to my 2nd Husband "Mike" for 4 years now. He's a jokester and loves to crack jokes all the time. He especially like to joke with my brother "Ethan" and his wife. Ethan used to be okay with it til he started complaining about Mike taking it too far with his jokes. Some context about Ethan.My husband insists that it should be only 4 hours (in the morning) so we would have to pay less. And since “I have been so great at taking care of everything” I will manage to do it by my own in the afternoons, he also does not want anyone else cooking for him or cleaning our bedroom, it has to be me; and then it turned into a big ...ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my step kids I'm not their mom? My husband (40M) and I (36F) have been together for 8 years now and our marriage have been rocky. When I met him he had twins, boy and girl. I love them like their my children, since it's hard for me to have kids they are mines. My husband and I tried for a baby last year and I became ...I wanted my mom with me because my mil is an overbearing - steamrolling type. My every concern, every query was ignored. My mom stayed with me because i asked her to stay in te room. I was worried that if i needed high level intervention my mil will put kids life over mine. My 2nd time was easier, i pushed for my own doc, own hosp etc.Frankly, their reaction about who they would "allow" in their family now and forever absolves you of any guilt about not telling them. You don't need to apologize to them. They need to apologize to you and your husband. As for refunding them, they bought it, unasked, based purely on assumptions they made.If wife isn't earning money, she needs to stop acting like husband's income is disposable. If she wants to help her sister she really should consider getting back to work. Supporting a family of 3 on one income is hard enough without another grown dependent in the mix.1.) Telling my husband he was being selfish by buying tickets to his favorite band during the week I was planning a vacation for us for my 30th birthday. 2.) I should just be happy he got me a ticket to come with him and “share the experience”. Help keep the sub engaging!My mother (42) will often use my (22F) debit card to deposit and use money since her account is over-drafted and she's yet to fix it. Last month, she lost it 2 times. Today, I had just got back home from a birthday party and went into my room to change into some PJs when I notice my keyboard on the floor and my debit card missing. Okay ...ADMIN MOD. Aita for explaining to my husband he's the reason we keep having daughters. I 30 F have 2 daughters and am currently pregnant with my 3rd girl. We just found out this morning. On the drive to my husband's mothers house he explained how he was a bit disappointed about having a girl. But then he said "I should've expected this ...Sep 23, 2023 · 2.7K Likes, 76 Comments. TikTok video from redditlisa (@redditlisa): “AITA for telling my husband. My money is mine? #storytime #reddit #redditstories #fyp #story #viral #AITA”. aita for telling my husband my money is mine. Updateoriginal sound - redditlisa.GlumMushroom9804. ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my wife to return it all. Asshole. My pregnant wife (26f) and I (35m)are really struggling at the moment as I lost my job and my wife had to quit her job as she's suffering from hyperemesis gravidarum. We've used up our savings and currently are living off our credit cards but I've got a job ...I wanted her to agree to ground our daughter from social media and make her get a job to pay for the damage. We argued for hours until she said I don't get a say in any punishment because I'm not her father. That ended the argument and I walked off. Since then I've checked out of any parental duties.There's a YouTube channel where the cashier hands men flowers as a nice gesture, and sure men are fragile and they can't hold purses or flowers, even if buying one for their girl, okay fine. But these men's responses were to threaten the cashier he'd be beat up, telling him to come outside and fight, throwing merchandise on the floor and screaming.throwra4t33. AITA for refusing to let my husband's mom nap in my room? Not the A-hole. My husband's mom moved in with us a week ago. The minute we were informed she was going to move in (temporarily til her house gets renovated) we've emptied a room specifically for her - it has everything. A bed with a frame, curtains, mounted TV, wardrobe etc.This has been my mantra for years. Mental illness or a diagnosis can be a reason for behavior, but it's not an excuse. Maybe it's not always reasonable to expect a person to be able to change that behavior, but it is perfectly reasonable for someone to say "this is not behavior I'm willing to tolerate in a friend/partner" whether that behavior is just kind of annoying or straight up abusive.ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my husband he works for himself, not for our family. Not the A-hole. My husband and I have known each other for 6 years and been married for almost 3 years now. We have a one year old, and we're expecting another baby. Our marriage has been full of emotional highs, we love each other and let the other know regularly.My husband passed away sadly when she was 4. So I (34F) have been with my fiancé Jesse (35M) for 8 years. My daughter Bailey is (14F). She considers Jesse her father. Jesse has never treated Bailey wrong at all. But knows of my husband who had passed away. Jesse has always treated her sweetly and like a daughter.A. You are not going to disrespect me in my house. B. You are not going to tell me how to spend MY money. C. And you are not going to tell me I made you look bad when your children are on the receiving end of my love AND generosity. Nope. Get out. 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️Husband: "How dare you, you piece of shit, we will figure it out, I will pull money out of my ass, because this is how the world works". AITA: close your legs for once, you whore, Christmas is a human right, it is literally children abuse to not have Christmas.NTA. My husband is a history nerd. I point blank tell him my eyes are starting to glaze over if he goes on for more than a couple of minutes. I wouldn't stand it if he accosted people in public. Football is a bit of a religion where I live but your husband sounds like he's completely obsessed (to put it mildly).Definitely not. How much your late wife left your children is between you and them. nta. but i feel like neither of you are. unless Nat wanted to take their money or something. I can see where she's coming from with being upset. so this feels like a nobody scenario. I feel like I could be upset in her place too.To make a really long story short. My ex-husband (soon to be) was an alcoholic and highly abusive. I finally kicked him out over a year ago and filed for divorce. And the divorce papers he’s allowed to get all of his personal items such as clothes, shoes, and small items for survival. But it gave him 30 days to get his things off of my property.I wanted my mom with me because my mil is an overbearing - steamrolling type. My every concern, every query was ignored. My mom stayed with me because i asked her to stay in te room. I was worried that if i needed high level intervention my mil will put kids life over mine. My 2nd time was easier, i pushed for my own doc, own hosp etc.ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my husband to eff off over the finances? Not the A-hole. I (40/F) work full time. My husband (46/M) is a stay-at-home-dad since COVID. Things were tight for a bit when he quit his full-time job and tried to start his own business (there were losses that caused debt). Finances have been a bit of a sore spot since his ...GlumMushroom9804. ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my wife to return it all. Asshole. My pregnant wife (26f) and I (35m)are really struggling at the moment as I lost my job and my wife had to quit her job as she's suffering from hyperemesis gravidarum. We've used up our savings and currently are living off our credit cards but I've got a job ...That would not have appeased her. Hubby and MIL should both be embarrassed for their behavior. First, hubby needs to learn his lesson and communicate with OP - and that's vastly different than laying out an edict that "MIL is visiting Saturday, just thought you should know" and actually planning visits with OP's input.ADMIN MOD. AITA for checking my daughters' bags after my husband packed them? Asshole. My (36F) husband (39M) and I are going on a brief vacation with our daughters (twins, 5 yo). I was busy at work getting things done before I had to go away, and when I came home I saw that my husband had already packed our girls' bags, which is something ...YTA for stealing from your husband, but more importantly, YTA for thinking this is about the amount. It's not. You've just shown the man you're supposed to love that you are fundamentally untrustworthy, and that you don't even think that's a big deal. Good luck with your marriage now. Reply reply.The story unfolded when a woman seeking advice posted on Reddit’s popular “Am I the A**hole” (AITA) forum, sharing that she had informed her husband that the money she earned was hers alone. She explained that she had always worked and managed her own finances, and she felt it was fair that she maintained control over her …There was a teen in my old neighborhood who I used to pay $20 to mow my fron lawn - it was a pretty small lawn, too. I'd sometimes pay him a little extra to do stuff like mulch my trees. Sometimes I'd find something for him to do because he'd text me saying he was in need of money so are there any odd jobs he can do.GlumMushroom9804. ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my wife to return it all. Asshole. My pregnant wife (26f) and I (35m)are really struggling at the moment as I lost my job and my wife had to quit her job as she's suffering from hyperemesis gravidarum. We've used up our savings and currently are living off our credit cards but I've got a job ...Put my glass in the sink, throw my left overs away, clean up after myself. And while I don't have to ask permission to get water or a drink, I do say a bit of an announcement, "I'm going to get a glass of water." Friend, "Please do!" It's called being respectful. OP, change your garage code and don't tell the fiancee, she can't be trusted. NTAWelcome to Reddit Reads, your ultimate destination for the best Reddit stories on YouTube! Today, we're bringing you an exciting collection of AITA stories (...ADMIN MOD. AITAH For telling my husband's secret? My (29f) husband, Charles (30m) went to his brother, Frank's (28m) bachelor party last weekend. Frank's fiancée, Jess (26f) was very vocal about her boundaries. She did not want him to go to a strip club because she finds it disrespectful and unnecessary. Jess is a very good friend of mine and ...My fiancé "Matt" claimed our daughter this year on his taxes and got back almost $9k because of it. I only made $800 less than him but we were told to have him claim her, as he did make more money. When he found out how much he was getting back, we came up with an agreement to put $6k of the money in to our daughters Roth Savings Account.Inheritance isn't marital property. But you need to be straight up with him and tell him he isn't going to have access to it. You're gonna have to have enough spine to put your foot down. If he doesn't like it let him leave because it doesn't sound like he's contributing anything. Edit.Not the A-hole. A few days ago my ex-husband mistakenly transferred two payments of 8700 and 9275. He did this at around 7:40am in the morning and I didn't notice because I had just worked a double/night shift and was getting ready for bed. So my phone was charging on the nightstand. At the same time my 4 children were at my parents and so I ...Call the rental company and have them rent you a car and come pick you up. Drive back to the rental company, finish the paperwork and you and baby get to a place with a hotel so you can get some sleep. Then drive home. If you are his legal spouse, you can drive the rental car.My MIL immediately started jumping to her sons defense and said that I couldn't tell her who she could and couldn't have here, so I screamed back "the fuck I can't! You don't pay any bills here, you don't even get your fucking mail here! That kid steps foot on my property one single time again and you'll be out of here!" They leave.My daughter was born when I was 18. My husband was also 18. Yes, we were young and she was not planned so that's why the timing seems weird on that. We do have another little girl now and have recently moved into our first house! Thank you to everyone for making this something so sensational!She told my husband, in front of his brother and sister and all the family, that she and my father in law never wanted him. She said they had only wanted two kids and they were lucky enough to have a boy and a girl and that was all they wanted. But by accident she got pregnant again. They don’t believe in abortions so they “were stuck ...AITA for asking my husband to move because I am fed up with his family : r/AmItheAsshole. Go to AmItheAsshole. r/AmItheAsshole. r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you ...ADMIN MOD. AITA for not splitting my daughter's college fund. Not the A-hole. When my (42F) daughter (17F) was 7, we lost her father to an avoidable accident. Due to that and the subsequent settlement, my daughter was able to have a trust fund of sorts that provided for college, grad school if she wanted, and even some left over for whatever ...I told them their money problems are not my issue, and if Sadie's items get stolen again or they try to pull her out of school, I'll be taking this to court. They've been blowing up my phone ever since, calling me a selfish AH, and after telling the story to a friend, he told me I was rubbing my success in their face, but I still don't feel ...Me & my husband also had a long dating period but we decided on getting married after a year - we just didn't have the money (weddings are super expensive …Recently my stepdaughter and her mom have been going through rough times. Her mom had another child with her new husband, at one point my stepdaughter and her mom had such a bad fight that her mom attempted to end parental rights. Even if this were to occur, I couldn't imagine trying to replace her mom.All gold material and again they are worth decent amount of money. My BIL has been with then gilfriend for 10 years and they recently got married. It was a huge deal for the family. My husband wanted to get them a decent wedding gift and tried borrowing money from friends and neighbors but got turned down.I didn’t know how much money to ask my husband for. And I should have known immediately how much I should want/need Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ. Subreddit Announcements Happy Anniversary, AITA!The route of “tell my husband to quit his longstanding family activity or get 3 working adults to change a long-fixed schedule” is pretty bold. But when you boil down the root cause to “a 9 year old doesn’t like being around their step-siblings”, that family need to work that out with those kids.After we graduated, she got a job at a gym teaching Yoga, I continued my education to be a teacher. She eventually met someone at the gym and he's RICH, like I can't even comprehend the kind of money this guy has. Fast forward to now, they're married, with two kids and I believe she signed a prenup when they married.OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I cut my mother off financially and made a petty remark as to what she should do instead. 2. This might make me an asshole because im saying exactly what was told to me as a kid, in response to something i wanted. Some might say i need to leave the past in ...There was a teen in my old neighborhood who I used to pay $20 to mow my fron lawn - it was a pretty small lawn, too. I'd sometimes pay him a little extra to do stuff like mulch my trees. Sometimes I'd find something for him to do because he'd text me saying he was in need of money so are there any odd jobs he can do. He'd sometimes ask me to ...My husband and I do Easter baskets for one another, and this year he gave me mine early since I’ll be gone. In the basket was the usual, dark choco bunny, Starburst jelly beans, and then some Swiftie stuff from Etsy, a fidget toy, and really surprisingly he got me three full bottles of perfumes that were on my wish list.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I might be an asshole for telling my daughter that I will not pay for her wedding or walk her down the isle until she invites her siblings she excluded due to them not being "traditional ...Asshole. So earlier today I (28F) told my husband (30M) he needs to make more money, especially if we want to start a family. We were texting at work and I was just kinda casually telling him we need to make more money (especially living in Silicon Valley). I also told him “im waiting on you..Having a kids is in your hands….Throwaway because my main is obviously me. So my husband (40)m and I (25)f share a bank account. There are three kids in the house including my newborn (I didn’t take any maternity just kept working, I am also the baby’s exclusive caregiver, he does stuff for older kids) A few pieces of information, I started a business about 5 years ago that ended up working out really well (don’t worry ...I wanted my mom with me because my mil is an overbearing - steamrolling type. My every concern, every query was ignored. My mom stayed with me because i asked her to stay in te room. I was worried that if i needed high level intervention my mil will put kids life over mine. My 2nd time was easier, i pushed for my own doc, own hosp etc.AITA for telling my husband he needs to move on? My (F29) husband (M27) lost his mom about 4 months ago to skin cancer. Of course, he was devastated considering him and his mom were extremely close. She was a single mom and raised him all alone so their bond was incredible.When me (f40) and my husband (m39) joined finances, my husband had a more stable salary and I was still studying but working part time. So we decided that we will try to live on his salary leaving mine for university fees, and other extras.Tell your husband that he still has to pay 60% rent that you will put away for any repairs that come along that that way he still has extra money from the lower rent. If he refuses …If they decided to get a loan from someone with an insane interest rate without telling you, that’s on them. Your husband has already shown you he can’t be trusted to pay anyone back, not even you. That’s not a good husband. Keep your money away from him and don’t let him make you feel bad. 16.AITA for telling my husband I am upset he made lunch plans with his friend the day before my c-section, didn't tell me until the last minute and didn't consider inviting me ... Me and mine love time together but also time apart doing our own thing. He knows I love being home alone (it's a thing for me and treating myself to a solo date). I ...r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.Welcome to Reddit Reads, your ultimate destination for the best Reddit stories on YouTube! Today, we're bringing you an exciting collection of AITA stories (...AITA for telling my husband. My money is mine? (r/AmITheAsshole)Source: Zealousideal_Fly4786 on Reddit (link removed because YouTube keeps dinging me for lin...AITA for telling my husband. My money is mine? (r/AmITheAsshole)Source: Zealousideal_Fly4786 on Reddit (link removed because YouTube keeps dinging me for lin...ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my “brother” if his kids go hungry that’s his problem not mine. Not the A-hole. Throwaway My English is a work in progress so just a warning. I’ll call my “brother” mike and my ex Tammy. 10 years ago my than fiancé left me at the alter (most humiliating thing I’ve ever been through) and went on our ...OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: 1.) Telling my husband I can't keep letting him leave open beers in the fridge. 2.) Because it shows that I don't respect my husbands wishes. Help keep the sub engaging!Based on your other comments: Your ex gives Emily $25 a week for lunch. You say school lunches are $5. By my math $5 x 5 days of school per week = $25. So your ex is paying only enough for her school lunches. Emily works part-time. She uses her own money to add to this to get lunches from restaurants.